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Therapy and Counseling in Polyamorous Relationships
These days with the number of polyamorous relationships rising, therapists are starting to realize that they need to be more...
Nov 11, 20204 min read


What if My Partner Manages Our Open Relationship Better Than I do?
Compersion – a buzz word within the poly community that stands out as expected of everyone to have when they get into an open...
Nov 9, 20203 min read


When the Hiding Transforms into Sex Addiction
A sad truth about most relationships is that either one or more partners has the impulse to hide things from their significant others....
Nov 7, 20203 min read


How to Spice Up Our Sex Lives
When you are in a relationship for long enough, things tend to become old hat when you let them. This is not excluding sex. Sex after...
Oct 18, 20203 min read


How to Manage Secondary Partners
Relationships are intrinsically complex. The amount of different factors you need to learn how to manage at once is nearly impossible to...
Oct 15, 20203 min read


What If Sex Is Better With My Secondary Partner(s)?
Have you started a relationship with that new relationship energy and immediately started feeling like this might be the one that clicks?...
Oct 14, 20203 min read


7 Rules That You Should Have When In an Open Relationship
We all know that there are rules and boundaries in an open relationship that need to be set to make things successful. With those rules...
Oct 11, 20205 min read


How to Avoid Falling in Love With a Secondary Partner
Being in an open relationship usually entails a dynamic of primary and secondary partners. A primary partner is almost like the single...
Oct 6, 20203 min read


How to Integrate Kink Into a Vanilla Sex Life
Often times, when people hear the word “kink,” their mind immediately goes to the most extreme example of fetish they have ever witnessed...
Sep 30, 20203 min read


Physical Boundaries to Consider in an Open Relationship
For most couples, talking about opening up your relationship is uncharted territory. It’s uncomfortable. It’s messy. It’s downright...
Sep 28, 20203 min read


6 Mistakes to Avoid When Trying to Be Polyamorous
So you’ve decided to be polyamorous and found that this lifestyle is one that you’d like to pursue with others in your life? Here are a...
Sep 24, 20203 min read


A Guide to Care for Poly Relationships: Before, During & After
You're in a position where you're looking for relationships, in one or just getting out of one, and looking for guidance. There are a few...
Sep 23, 20205 min read


What If I Develop Feelings for a Secondary Partner
When in an open relationship, the agreement between you and your primary partner might simply be that you can have other sexual partners....
Sep 19, 20204 min read


Basic Boundaries My Partner and I Discussed
Boundaries can be hard to set, simply because they are hard to understand. My personal definition of boundaries is a list of things you...
Sep 18, 20203 min read


The Do's and Dont's of Open Relationships
In order to have a successful relationship, there must be an implicit or explicit set of rules that all parties follow. Whenever these...
Sep 17, 20203 min read


Casual vs. Serious External Relationships: What is Too Far?
Question: Are you OK with your partner building a deep, long-term relationship with someone else, or would you prefer if they just keep...
Sep 9, 20203 min read


What Are the Signs My Partner Needs to Discover New Things?
We all have special activities that we like to do. Whether we like to do them by ourselves, with our partners, or with a group of...
Sep 6, 20203 min read


5 Ways to Live Together in the Same Space With Your Partner(s)
We all know that living with yourself is enough to drive you crazy sometimes. Adding someone else into the mix can be just as crazy when...
Sep 5, 20203 min read


Why is My Partner No Longer Attracted to Me?
With attraction, we think of ourselves at the beginning of our relationships where things are fantastic, we're attracted instantly, and...
Sep 4, 20205 min read


A Guide to Making Rules for an Open Relationship
By now, you have most likely created rules for your family, your workplace, or yourself. When you make rules for an open relationship,...
Sep 2, 20203 min read
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